Monday I was taught how to dilate by Marci’s assistant inserting the tool first then me following. Tuesday, first morning dilation was very easy while the second time I got frustrated because the tool would not go into my vagina. When I say frustrated I really mean it but I took a few deep breathes and tried again, was painful but got it in. Third time was a breeze and took note on the exact angle to first line the tool up with the opening of my vagina then position two straighten the tool to align with the opening (now here is the part that makes it easy) now move the tool to the right about two degrees and it goes pretty much right in. Now I really “got it”

Those who read this that will be going through the same exercise take note of the angles needed for painless penetration else you will a) feel pain b) cause damage to your new vagina.